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Being an adult at home 导读:大一新生们迎来了大学的第一个寒假。同学们期盼着和家人团聚,想念着家里那浓浓的温情。可是到家后,同学们却发现自己的热情迅速降温,烦恼也随之而来。对已经习惯校园生活,并向往自由的他们来说,父母的
唠叨声(nagging)变得愈加刺耳。
怀着盼望回家过年的心情,大一新生们在火车站排了几个小时队来买票。几天后,他们挤进一列拥挤的火车,想象着家中的美味和那些即将在到家后感受到的浓浓情意。基于这些,他们表示,回家再周折也是值得的。 However, many freshmen come to find that home is not exactly how they remembered it. Living away from their parents has exposed them to a new life of freedom – one that within hours of arriving some begin to miss. Household chores and nagging parents are just a few of the things that can ruin students` winter fantasies. “[My parents] still treat me like I was in senior high,” Song Ying, a 19-year-old freshman at Shandong University, complained. “I get an earful [from them] every day.” During her first semester away from her Hubei home, Song missed everything – from her parents cooking to the city bus. She cried and ached to sleep in her own bed. So, upon finishing her exams, she fled home, thinking everything would be just as it used to be. Boy, was she wrong. Now, she spends entire days at a friend`s home to “avoid all the restrictions”. She logs online to update friends` profile on SNS, skips meals and sleeps in – just like she did on campus. Things have been even more tense at home for Luo Ruiqi, a 19-year-old freshman at Beijing Jiaotong University. Instead of moving to a friend`s house, though, he has decided to challenge his parents` rules for his right to be an adult at home. When they complained about the amount of time he spent in the toilet, Luo said he decided “enough is enough” and lost his temper. He feels guilty about his attitude, but he still argues that he is grown up enough to live by his own rules. “I just want to live my own way of living, wherever I am,” said Luo. Recent graduates like Wang Kai know what Song and Luo are going through. But Wang, who graduated in 2008 and now works in Beijing, says students should cherish the time spent with their family and “just try to be nicer.” Wang says he acted the same way when he first returned home from college, but now, living 1,500 km away from his hometown in Hunan, he regrets his behavior. He realizes that his parents meant well. And, looking back, he says that “the way of living that we got used to on campus is not that healthy anyway”. Parents, meanwhile, are more understanding than you might think. “Living on their own in a strange place can be harsh –we`ve been there before,” said Luo`s father. “We want to make sure that they are healthy and happy. Sometimes maybe we just worry too much.” As for the tension that`s arisen between father and son, Luo senior laughed and said, “It`s not a problem at all – he`s my son; we work things out, always.”
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