在得知别人不喜欢你后，会感到难过、自尊心被摧毁？外国博主小姐姐Kasey分享了令自己受益匪浅的一个道理，教你学会不在乎不喜欢你的人。

Kasey在视频中讲到，自己曾发现人们要么很喜欢她，要么很讨厌她，两者没有中间的状态，这让她感到十分困扰：她希望大家都能喜欢自己。有一天，当Kasey向自己的一位教练抱怨这件事时，教练用一个非常形象的比喻，教给她从不同角度看待这个问题，令她受益匪浅：

“你要明白，你是一块磁铁。在你吸引别人的同时，你也会以同样的力量排斥另一些人。如果你改变了你自己，改变自己的行为，好让自己减少排斥某些人的力量，你同样也会减少自己对另一些人的吸引力。”
“You are a magnet. And by the same force that you attract people, you are going to repel others. And if you change who you are and change your behavior so that you can lessen the force with which you repel some people, you will also lessen the force by which you attract others.”



“别再关注那些不喜欢你的人了，把注意力集中在喜欢你的人身上，他们才是重要的人。吸引力和排斥力是相互存在的。当你用你的爱、热情和能量吸引别人的时候，你也可能会惹恼其他人。但那是他们的问题，不是你的。”
“You need to stop paying attention to people that just don't like you, and keep focusing on the ones that do. They are the ones that matter. And you need to just know they cannot have one without the other. So as forcefully as you attract people with your love and your passion and your energy, you're going to annoy other people too. It's their problem, not yours.”

怎么样，你同意小姐姐讲的吗？

来源：TikTok @abetterjones